You have now completed the category ~b~1~b. Before you go on, take a few silent
moments to write down important things that you said and important
things you heard your partner say. When you've both finished, compare what you've
both written, did you both hear the same thing? If not, why?
~l
    Without talking, ask yourself: What is my level of support for my partner?
During the Heart-to-Heart Talk, did I listen silently and attentively
to my partner, allowing him or her to fully express him or herself, or
did I often find myself interrupting or thinking about what I
were going to say?
~p
    ~bRemember~b: if you really want to communicate, maintain a loving, neutral,
and attentive silence while your partner is speaking. Try to maintain eye contact
at all times.~l
    When you are ready you can continue on with another category, or you may
wish to put the program aside and continue at some later date. Your responses
will be saved on your disk.